an arranged marriage is better than Love marriage
there are many broken and divided marriages in our society today and 80% of these marital crisis occurs because the couples were given the opportunity to select their spouse by themselves..but if we allow elderly and parental choices (arranged marriage) as regarding marriages,the rate of broken and divorced homes will drastically drop..what do you think
Personally I really disagree on this matter that arranged marriage is better than love marriage . I believe that love marriage is better because when one goes into marriage because of love, he/she can overlook some certain things his or her spouse is doing because they love each other and also never forget that love covers multitude of sin.
No I don't agree at all but I grew up in a society that allows us to make our own choices. Can you really fall in love with someone who has been chosen for you by someone else? I don't think I could.
Having said that I do know of an Indian couple who had an arranged marriage and have been happy but the woman did say that if she hadn't liked the person her parents had chosen she would not have been forced to marry him. I suppose that's something.
Except the partners work things out, one will always be caged and oppressed by the other. The parents arranged the marriage but do not really know the capability of the person they are handing their child to.
It is difficult to end an arranged marriage if you are abused because of the parent's selfish interest
In ref of India arrange marriage are better than love marriage. Marriage is relation between two family not with is 2 person. At present it is not tough to know each other before marriage. If some one have in relation than before marriage it is better to take in confidence to both families.
I think everything will depend upon the individuals invlved in the love and want to get married. I am about 60 years old and i got married with my wife some 34 years back. That was a love marriage. Then the love marriages were unheard of in India. I have approached my parents and convnced them and in turn my parents convinced the relatives and friends and the marriage took place.
Today we have a som who is an engimeer working with a Japanese Company in R and D division and he is happily got married with a Girl who has completed her Ph D and working as an Assistant Professor in English. though their marriage was arranged one for some or other reason they had to wait fr three tears and they had courtship during that time and they are happy today!
Thus in my opinion in both the cases either in arranged marriage or in love marriages the success depends on the maturity of the indiiduals involved in it!